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Dancing in the Rain

Author: ; Published On: ಶನಿವಾರ, ಜುಲಾಯಿ 10th, 2010;

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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman, probably in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On examining , it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, ‘And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?’

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, ‘She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.’

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, ‘That is the kind of love I want in my life.’

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. ‘Life isn’t about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.

3 Responses to Dancing in the Rain

  1. ravi n

    god is great…
    one thing really confuses me…
    why do we want to capture the things which we love…
    why cant we just feel that feeling and enjoy it… leaving it to itself…
    really why does god makes these bindings.
    why cant he leave us free…
    he makes us to feel love but restricts to enjoy with it….


  2. Mohan Bhaskar

    hare rama guruji…

    sandesha sogasaagide…
    nammannu anyaru gurutisalilla embaga eshtonu asahane; khinnate; naave urutisabahudittalla endu nisuvade illa..??

    ella maye..bandha.. nirbandha… alle sambanha… ???



  3. ರಾಘವೇ೦ದ್ರ ನಾರಾಯಣ ಉಪಾಧ್ಯ Raghavendra Narayana

    no comments.
    just wondering who started something called “true love”, what is “false love”, what stupid?
    love is beautiful = beautiful is love


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